Learning 
                  Together; Community partnership provides key support 
                  North Shore News 
                  September 23, 2007 
                  By: Layne Christensen 
                  
                  Melissa Solomon's face lights up when she talks about high-school 
                  graduation. 
                  "After I'm done at Sutherland, I'll be at Capilano College 
                  for first and second year sciences and then I'm going to UBC 
                  for medicine," says the Grade 12 student. 
                  Like her classmates at the North Vancouver secondary school, 
                  she is excited about graduating this year and full of plans 
                  for her future. But while her classmates' thoughts will soon 
                  turn to summer employment, tuition and student housing, Solomon 
                  will have other concerns, like the cost of diapers, child-care 
                  fees and night-time feedings. 
                  "It's going to happen," Solomon says with determination, 
                  gently pushing a baby stroller back and forth to soothe her 
                  infant daughter, Charlotte, to sleep. 
                  Solomon, 21, is enrolled in the Learning Together program, which 
                  provides support for young moms to attend school and build parenting 
                  skills while their children are provided with free quality day 
                  care right at the school site. She is one of 12 young moms in 
                  the program this year. That's higher than average enrolment 
                  for the program and it's a number that rises and falls from 
                  year to year, says Lisa Hubbard, program manager of child-care 
                  services for North Shore Neighbourhood House. 
                  The North Vancouver-based not-for-profit charity runs the child-care 
                  centre on Sutherland school grounds and operates Learning Together 
                  in conjunction with the North Vancouver school district and 
                  other community partners. 
                  Hubbard has worked with the program since its inception 12 years 
                  ago. The day care, a multi-room portable located on school grounds, 
                  has 24 spots for newborns to three-year-olds and offers care 
                  Mondays to Fridays, 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. Despite an overwhelming 
                  demand from within the community for quality child care, the 
                  facility never runs at capacity. That's so there are always 
                  openings for the children of young moms who enter the program 
                  in September and February, says Hubbard. 
                  The monthly child-care fee, as high as $1,050 for full-time 
                  infant care, is waived for students enrolled in Learning Together. 
                  However, all those involved in the program are quick to point 
                  out that Learning Together is not simply free child care. 
                  It's a circle of support for girls at risk, says Georgina Farah, 
                  a family support worker with North Shore Neighbourhood House. 
                  "The Learning Together child-care centre is a hub of activity. 
                  That's where I go and I informally ask people: How are they 
                  (the infants) doing? Do you have enough food? How is baby sleeping? 
                  How are you doing? How are you feeling these days?," explains 
                  Farah, who also facilitates a Tuesday evening pregnant and parenting 
                  teen program and parents together support group, at North Shore 
                  Neighbourhood House…. 
                  Learning Together is a bridge to other programs that operate 
                  under the umbrella of North Shore Neighbourhood House, like 
                  Sweet Peas nutritional cooking classes for moms on a tight budget 
                  and Mother Goose story-time drop-ins for parents and tots. And 
                  it connects the teens with support workers who can help with 
                  finding affordable housing, arranging for free transit passes 
                  and co-ordinating other services. 
                  "A lot of information gets exchanged about the needs of 
                  the teenagers that are in the program. And often, young pregnancy 
                  is part of a larger issue; it's just one of the challenges that 
                  some of the girls face," says Negreiff. 
                  Those challenges include but are not limited to poverty and 
                  isolation. 
                  "They face a number of barriers, not just poverty and low 
                  income," says Farah. "While they all have homes, they 
                  are vulnerable to being homeless. Not many landlords like to 
                  rent to single parents with young babies, especially if they 
                  are 17 or 18, so they're often not in the best accommodations. 
                  Then there are a lot of relationship issues; as you can probably 
                  imagine with young parents trying to raise a child, it often 
                  doesn't work. And then there are custody issues they have to 
                  deal with." 
                  Hunger is another issue. "Many are struggling to raise 
                  their babies, go to high school and live on welfare. A lot of 
                  the times they come in and they are quite hungry. Their babies 
                  are fed but as moms they are often the last one to look after 
                  themselves," says Farah. 
                  Learning Together provides meals for the children in care. Recognizing 
                  there is a greater need, it also has an "open fridge" 
                  policy for the young parents, with bagels and cream cheese, 
                  granola bars and fresh fruit among the nutritious items on offer. 
                  To date, organizers have been running the breakfast-lunch program 
                  at a deficit and have this fall turned to the business community 
                  for support. Negreiff said the mothers' meal program costs about 
                  $9,000 annually to fund; North Shore Neighbourhood House is 
                  asking for cash donations to offset that cost. 
                  "What we're aiming to do is to provide a steady lunch program," 
                  said Farah. The young moms really need that. They're doing this 
                  against all odds -- going to high school, raising a child and 
                  feeding themselves along with their babies." 
                  The meal program is something that would benefit teens like 
                  Christine Thomas, a Grade 10 student whose seven-month-old son 
                  Drake is in care at the school site. Thomas, 16, visits Drake 
                  during breaks between classes and eats lunch with him daily 
                  at the child-care centre, which is a requirement of the Learning 
                  Together program. A nutritious lunch would be a break from cafeteria 
                  food, Thomas' typical lunchtime fare, and would allow the teen 
                  more time with her son and the support workers on site. 
                  It would also allow Thomas time to visit with and learn from 
                  other parents in the program, like Jaimi Zammit, 20, who is 
                  in her second year of Learning Together. 
                  A mother of two, Zammit is completing Grade 12 this semester 
                  while her daughter Ciara, 2, and son Leon, 1, are in care. Standing 
                  in the child-care centre with Ciara at her side and Leon at 
                  play nearby, Zammit talks about the support she receives from 
                  Learning Together. "In the morning I come in a bit early 
                  and have a cup of coffee before going in there," she says, 
                  gesturing towards the main school building as if she were going 
                  into battle. 
                  Upon graduation, the young mom hopes to land a secretarial job 
                  and will consider more schooling after that, she says. Would 
                  she be looking at a future full of possibilities without the 
                  support of Learning Together? "Probably not, to be honest," 
                  Zammit says. "I wouldn't be working. I wouldn't be going 
                  to school. No. This program is pretty damn special."  |