Learning
Together; Community partnership provides key support
North Shore News
September 23, 2007
By: Layne Christensen
Melissa Solomon's face lights up when she talks about high-school
graduation.
"After I'm done at Sutherland, I'll be at Capilano College
for first and second year sciences and then I'm going to UBC
for medicine," says the Grade 12 student.
Like her classmates at the North Vancouver secondary school,
she is excited about graduating this year and full of plans
for her future. But while her classmates' thoughts will soon
turn to summer employment, tuition and student housing, Solomon
will have other concerns, like the cost of diapers, child-care
fees and night-time feedings.
"It's going to happen," Solomon says with determination,
gently pushing a baby stroller back and forth to soothe her
infant daughter, Charlotte, to sleep.
Solomon, 21, is enrolled in the Learning Together program, which
provides support for young moms to attend school and build parenting
skills while their children are provided with free quality day
care right at the school site. She is one of 12 young moms in
the program this year. That's higher than average enrolment
for the program and it's a number that rises and falls from
year to year, says Lisa Hubbard, program manager of child-care
services for North Shore Neighbourhood House.
The North Vancouver-based not-for-profit charity runs the child-care
centre on Sutherland school grounds and operates Learning Together
in conjunction with the North Vancouver school district and
other community partners.
Hubbard has worked with the program since its inception 12 years
ago. The day care, a multi-room portable located on school grounds,
has 24 spots for newborns to three-year-olds and offers care
Mondays to Fridays, 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. Despite an overwhelming
demand from within the community for quality child care, the
facility never runs at capacity. That's so there are always
openings for the children of young moms who enter the program
in September and February, says Hubbard.
The monthly child-care fee, as high as $1,050 for full-time
infant care, is waived for students enrolled in Learning Together.
However, all those involved in the program are quick to point
out that Learning Together is not simply free child care.
It's a circle of support for girls at risk, says Georgina Farah,
a family support worker with North Shore Neighbourhood House.
"The Learning Together child-care centre is a hub of activity.
That's where I go and I informally ask people: How are they
(the infants) doing? Do you have enough food? How is baby sleeping?
How are you doing? How are you feeling these days?," explains
Farah, who also facilitates a Tuesday evening pregnant and parenting
teen program and parents together support group, at North Shore
Neighbourhood House….
Learning Together is a bridge to other programs that operate
under the umbrella of North Shore Neighbourhood House, like
Sweet Peas nutritional cooking classes for moms on a tight budget
and Mother Goose story-time drop-ins for parents and tots. And
it connects the teens with support workers who can help with
finding affordable housing, arranging for free transit passes
and co-ordinating other services.
"A lot of information gets exchanged about the needs of
the teenagers that are in the program. And often, young pregnancy
is part of a larger issue; it's just one of the challenges that
some of the girls face," says Negreiff.
Those challenges include but are not limited to poverty and
isolation.
"They face a number of barriers, not just poverty and low
income," says Farah. "While they all have homes, they
are vulnerable to being homeless. Not many landlords like to
rent to single parents with young babies, especially if they
are 17 or 18, so they're often not in the best accommodations.
Then there are a lot of relationship issues; as you can probably
imagine with young parents trying to raise a child, it often
doesn't work. And then there are custody issues they have to
deal with."
Hunger is another issue. "Many are struggling to raise
their babies, go to high school and live on welfare. A lot of
the times they come in and they are quite hungry. Their babies
are fed but as moms they are often the last one to look after
themselves," says Farah.
Learning Together provides meals for the children in care. Recognizing
there is a greater need, it also has an "open fridge"
policy for the young parents, with bagels and cream cheese,
granola bars and fresh fruit among the nutritious items on offer.
To date, organizers have been running the breakfast-lunch program
at a deficit and have this fall turned to the business community
for support. Negreiff said the mothers' meal program costs about
$9,000 annually to fund; North Shore Neighbourhood House is
asking for cash donations to offset that cost.
"What we're aiming to do is to provide a steady lunch program,"
said Farah. The young moms really need that. They're doing this
against all odds -- going to high school, raising a child and
feeding themselves along with their babies."
The meal program is something that would benefit teens like
Christine Thomas, a Grade 10 student whose seven-month-old son
Drake is in care at the school site. Thomas, 16, visits Drake
during breaks between classes and eats lunch with him daily
at the child-care centre, which is a requirement of the Learning
Together program. A nutritious lunch would be a break from cafeteria
food, Thomas' typical lunchtime fare, and would allow the teen
more time with her son and the support workers on site.
It would also allow Thomas time to visit with and learn from
other parents in the program, like Jaimi Zammit, 20, who is
in her second year of Learning Together.
A mother of two, Zammit is completing Grade 12 this semester
while her daughter Ciara, 2, and son Leon, 1, are in care. Standing
in the child-care centre with Ciara at her side and Leon at
play nearby, Zammit talks about the support she receives from
Learning Together. "In the morning I come in a bit early
and have a cup of coffee before going in there," she says,
gesturing towards the main school building as if she were going
into battle.
Upon graduation, the young mom hopes to land a secretarial job
and will consider more schooling after that, she says. Would
she be looking at a future full of possibilities without the
support of Learning Together? "Probably not, to be honest,"
Zammit says. "I wouldn't be working. I wouldn't be going
to school. No. This program is pretty damn special." |